Navigating Holiday Stress: Building Connection and Resilience as a Couple

My suggestions to approach holiday pressures thoughtfully, with specific tips about how to share expectations early, plan for emotional fatigue, make repair a priority and practice selective engagement. Over this time you can also take the opportunity to create your own rituals, express gratitude in specific ways and remember the bigger picture.

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Why is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) One of the Most Effective Styles of Relationship Counselling?

A look at the reasons why Emotionally Focused Therapy EFT is becoming a gold standard for couples counselling, diving into: the scientific evidence, impacts of attachment, how to rewire emotional responses, getting deeper emotional connection and how the EFT therapist can be uniquely flexible to the couple’s needs.

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Understanding Your Attachment Styles: Tips to Strengthen Your Relationship

Advanced strategies from Fitzroy North Couples Counsellor Zoltan Rajki to immediately improve your relationship by using your understanding of attachment styles - with a blend of newer perspectives and timeless attachment theory principles.

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How Attachment Styles Theory Can Help You Build Positive Family Dynamics – Even with Different Parenting Styles

By focusing on connection, emotional availability, and balancing your approaches, you can create an environment where your child thrives emotionally - without the need to replicate your parents' methods or lose your own values.

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How Couples Therapy Season 4 Highlights the Challenges of New Parenthood: Lessons from Elíana and Mitch

Elíana and Mitch from the Couples Therapy show offer a compelling case study on the realities of new parenthood; here are my thoughts and advice about how we can learn from the show.

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